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Solo Travel – Yourself for Company

Why travel alone? Numerous books and blogs have extolled the wonders of solo travel. Others have said that it’s the ultimate in self-indulgence and the perfect time for deep introspection.

For me, traveling solo is empowering. Perhaps, it’s true that we do take on different masks when we travel or simply free ourselves from our usual persona – “that traveling almost strips one from character”.

The Venetians

Alain de Botton succinctly pointed out, “It seemed an advantage to be traveling alone. Our responses to the world are crucially molded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others. They may have particular visions of who we are and hence may subtly prevent certain sides of us from emerging… Being closely observed by a companion can also inhibit our observation of others; then, too, we may become caught up in adjusting ourselves to the companions questions and remarks, or feel the need to make ourselves seem more normal than is good for our curiosity (The Art of Travel, p252).”

Perhaps the challenge of being a lone traveler and not beholden to a travel companion or a schedule, heightens the travel experience and allows for more discovery of oneself outside the confines of the secure and comfortable bubble of the regular day-to-day activities. For me, everything seems more beautiful, taste buds are on overdrive as everything tastes better. Having a receptive mindset, being alone seem to magnify the vividness of the travel adventure. You tend to absorb every detail and sensation – soak in everything about the experience (not to mention – you can spend more time documenting the subject before you without having to worry that your travel companion is getting bored!).

Of course, there would always be that occasional snippets of times when company is sought – particularly when the experience is best shared – such as gawking at an impressionist painting you didn’t think you’ll ever see in person or standing before magnificent architectural edifices you’ve studied and only read about (quite extensively), more so when spine-tingling vistas and landscapes unfold before your very eyes.

But for me at least, it seems that the benefits of solo travel outweigh the drawbacks. Mistakes and travel faux pas are definitely your own – and I certainly had my share (but that’s for another post). However, for all the goof ups, the triumphs are all the more sweeter.

What is your travel style? Solo travel may not be for everyone. But perhaps, at some point, you have experienced traveling on your own. Did you discover things about yourself you wouldn’t have had the chance if you were not on your own? Have you been to a place on your own and compared the experience with when you visited it with travel companions?

at St Peter's Square

Originally posted in Post Hoc, Ergo Propter Hoc**


4 comments on “Solo Travel – Yourself for Company

  1. susanmaedetera
    3 March 2013

    ive traveled in europe and pacific alone…before i embarked on my journey, i had a lot of questions that i was hoping to get answers while traveling…but then halfway through my travel, i get more questions than answers….i get to reflect a lot on life, myself and the cultural differences and so on…my French friend told me i should enjoy and have fun and stop being dramatic about my reflections in life….but i said, that is what traveling alone is all about… is more of a self discovery more than anything….the destination comes second..the journey is what matters the most….for it is through our journey that we rediscover a lot of things about life and ourselves….thanks for sharing….makes me want to travel solo again,….

    • MMAndamon
      4 March 2013

      Thanks for dropping by, Susan. Self-discovery is definitely a wonderful motivation to travel solo. And I agree, often times, the destination comes second.

  2. frugalfirstclasstravel
    3 March 2013

    Really enjoyable read. Thanks for posting!

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